Sunday 15 October 2023

Pete

 When I was young I had a best mate called Pete. We went through 11 years of school together culminating with a fistful of O Levels each.

In our teens we shared a love of rock music - we both cried when most of Lynyrd Skynyrd died - We loved the Lakes - Pete went climbing and I played guitar outside the Old Dungeon Ghyll - we played music in his magnificent shed like Neil Young, Sad Cafe and Pink Floyd - and Pete was there for me when my Mum died. We were 15.

In the late Seventies we went to Germany on his motorbike. I was in his sidecar. I was meant to be reading the map but I kept falling asleep!

In the early 80's Pete was doing well and had his own house which he shared with his brother. Me and my future wife went round for home-made chips and we all watched the Kenny Everett Television Show.

In 1984 Pete was a witness at the Missus' and I's marriage and because we were penniless he graciously  let us join him and his girlfriend on Sky for our honeymoon! 

By the mid 1980's I'd moved away permanently from our home town, was married and a had a baby daughter. I began to lose touch with Pete.

Always a restless soul, he emigrated to Oz sometime around 1985.

I saw Pete again at his own wedding reception in the early 90's. I'll never forget his new Australian accent.

Pete visited us at Moonbase in the early Noughties on his month long trip home.

After that I became lazy and completely lost touch sadly.

Pete died in 2022, aged 61 I guess, like me. I only found out recently from his younger brother who had also emigrated.

I can see Pete now climbing the fells of Heaven singing his favourite Dire Straits tune, his infectious smile lighting the dark.

I only have a few pictures of Pete. This is my favourite, sharing a pose on our German bike trip in 1979. Pete's on the left.

RIP mate. Keep Ridin'



19 comments:

  1. Sorry to hear that. Condolences.

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  2. Hi Paul, I am so sorry to read this. I too have much loved friends who died before their proper time. The loss is profound and we never forget them.

    Both of you, that is an awesome pose, a once in a lifetime picture.

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  3. That's very sad news, Woodsy, but a heart felt tribute, lovely memory and brilliant photograph!

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  4. Keep Ridin' Guys.
    We've a few more miles to go yet.
    But now, one of your escorts has wings.

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  5. Paul Adams from New Zealand10/15/2023 5:40 pm

    Too young. But it sounds like you have some great memories. I lost a friend a few years ago, and now always make it a point to say thank you to those who have made a difference in my life. Thanks, Woodsy.

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  6. Lives have a habit of going their separate ways. The "Ten Pound Poms" emigration system to Australia was responsible for quite a few friendships being split apart, as I know from personal experience.
    You have all those great memories of your special times together. Like my best friend at High School, who went his separate way and we never met up again until his funeral, we all have lives together and lives apart.
    Living them as well as we can is the most important thing...

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  7. I am very sorry for your loss

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  8. I'm deeply moved by your beautiful eulogy, so sorry for your loss Woodsy. That special friendship will stay with you forever.

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  9. looks a happy time. Like you I have lost friends, and age does make one more reflective.

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  10. There's an expression I like to use about friendship "like literally living in and out of each others pockets" I like to think that when you're not doing the aforementioned those people still stay in your pocket always at your side just for whenever you need them and if they unfortunately do pass on then their still there, by your side for whenever you still need them,
    My condolences mate

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    1. A really lovely thought Marky. Thank you.

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